Social Interactions in Confined Spaces.
Recently, I had an awkward encounter in an elevator. It was in a 15-story building, which is quite tall by the standards of the Big Island. This experience left me thinking about the complexities of social interactions in confined spaces.
The Elevator Ride
I entered the elevator on the first floor, alone. I pressed the button for the 10th floor, my destination. Shortly after, an older man, probably in his 60s, stepped in, reading a newspaper. He pressed the button for the 7th floor. Trying to be friendly and make conversation, I remarked, “7th floor, huh? Yeah, I was thinking about going there. Heard good things about the 7th floor, but I decided to go on up to the 10th instead.”
The Awkward Response
The man looked at me with a mixture of confusion and annoyance. It was clear from his expression that he was wondering why I was talking to him. His look seemed to say, “Who are you, and why are you talking to me?” Feeling uncomfortable and sensing that he wasn’t a very friendly person, I decided I needed to get away.
Making a Quick Escape
As the elevator continued its ascent, I started feeling more and more awkward. I desperately wanted to get off, so I began pressing the stop button repeatedly. The elevator finally stopped on the 4th floor. I got off and decided to walk the remaining six flights up to the 10th floor.
Reflections on the Encounter
Reflecting on the incident, I realized I was just trying to make polite conversation. I thought I was complimenting his choice of the 7th floor, but clearly, he didn’t see it that way. This encounter left me feeling uneasy, but it was also a reminder that not everyone is open to casual conversation, especially in elevators.
Social interactions can be tricky, especially in close quarters. While my intention was to be friendly, not everyone appreciates unsolicited comments. Next time, I am going to think twice before striking up a conversation in an elevator. It just isn’t worth it.
